FAQs
Q: “I’m not a submissive or a masochist. Can we still meet?”
I don’t mind how you identify or what your experience level is, as long as you are open-minded & curious to relinquish control. If you dislike the idea of releasing control, following My lead or pleasing Me, we are not the right fit.
Q: “I’m curious to see You but I don’t like pain. What could we do instead?”
So much! Tease & denial, sensory play, erotic control... My job is to expand on your existing desires by introducing you to new delights. It is ultimately up to you if you want to proceed in any given direction.
Q: “What should I call You?”
You may call Me ‘DominX Carmen’ , ‘Saint Carmen’, ‘Mx Carmen’ or simply ‘Boss’. Do not use ‘Mistress’, ‘Domina’ or ‘Goddess’- these honourifics do not affirm Me.
I use They/Them pronouns- learn how to use the singular They here.
Q: “Do You offer full service?”
My sessions do not include sex & I do not switch or sub.
Q: “What if I’m private about my kink life?”
No details of your identity, interests or involvement in kink will be disclosed without your prior consent.