FAQs
Q: “How should I address You?”
You may call Me ‘Boss Carmen’ or simply ‘Boss’. Do not use ‘Mistress’, ‘Miss’, ‘Domina’ or ‘Goddess’- these honourifics do not affirm Me.
I use They/Them pronouns- learn how to use the singular They here.
Q. Does applying guarantee me a booking with You?
I am a low-volume provider; I prioritise the quality of dynamics over quantity. I hand select subs who demonstrate their eagerness to add value to My life. Sending Me a gift is a good start. Clear & descriptive communication is a must. Are you who I am looking for?
Q: “Do You offer full service?”
No— My sessions do not include sex, kissing, switching or subbing.
Q: “I’d like to see You but I don’t like pain. Is BDSM for me?”
BDSM involves a consensual power exchange— this may or may not include pain, depending on the desires & limits of both sub & Domme. If pain is your limit, it will be excluded from our sessions.
Is BDSM for you? Find out, or stay wondering forever.
Q: “I don’t identify as a submissive or a masochist. Can I still see You?”
As long as you are open-minded & eager to relinquish control. If the idea of following My lead does not appeal to you, we are not the right fit.
Q: “What if I’m private about my kink life?”
No details of your identity, interests or involvement in kink will be disclosed without your prior consent.